Never crushed...
This was going to be a fiction story...but well. Actually Dreame3r's recent blog got me thinking about this. The one about crushes.
Recently all of us six cousins met up at Chints place [Chints is the oldest followed by me then sid, manu, chandu and ush]. We discussed random things, laughed, bitched and well, had a good time like always. Then someone [I do not remember who!] popped this topic of crushes.
They all seem to have had crushes at some point of time at least. For fair skinned boy/girl who either dressed smartly or was plain hot. I had nothing to offer.
"Ummm...I have never had a crush!" As soon as these words were out my mouth, they all roared with laughter. How can I be like this? No crushes? How come? Are you abnormal or what? Nopes. I just never liked smeone that way. Then we discussed how would we define a crush and all that. But I did not fit anywhere. Even my sister has had a crush [she seems wary of relationships yet!] and I am in a serious relationship-happily in love. So something is wrong with me. Blah.
This takes me back many many moons ago. I had a friend in my building (boy) and we were close. But things went sour when everyone started to tease us. We decided never to talk again. I lost a good friend. I don't think that was a crush either. I was in the seventh grade! Arrrggghhh....well my cousins gave me a queer look and went on ranting about their crushes.
Sheesh...
we term things...........and make it difficult for ourselves to decide.
ReplyDelete@ Nikholic
ReplyDeleteHi! I agree with you here...! Thanks for stopping by. Keep visiting.
hehehehe!!!
ReplyDeleteI have had several crushes..I still do! :P
Crushes are a great pass time and quite inspirational too:) but as you say..the bottom line is "never to get crushed"
ReplyDelete@ Iggy
ReplyDeleteI just never had any...lolz. But well I got him! //evil laughter// Lolz.
@ Sujata
True. I never thought of the caption like you mentioned. So I never got crushed by a crush! Hehehe!
GEEZ!! never had a crush!! u r weird!!...i can think of tons of crushes off the top of my head...wow..weird!!..;-)
ReplyDeletecrush nahi hua??
ReplyDeletevery strange...
have u heard 'Crush' by Jennifer??
(i keep crushing every now n then:))
@ Dream'R
ReplyDeleteYup!no crush-vrush! Weird na?
@ Vin
Sigh...pata nahi mere saath hee kyu aisa hua! Lolz
lucky ..He-man!! ... what else. .. hehehe
ReplyDelete:).. Small Crushes tend to add a lil spice and excitement to ones' regular lyf.... hee..
ReplyDeleteI have crushed and gt crushed several times... :D
@ Dreame3r
ReplyDeleteConfirm with him first.
@ Ashwin Kumar B
ReplyDeleteInteresting. Lolz. Keep visitng. TC
ha ha ha :)
ReplyDeletewell this is everywhere I guess :P
thats with teasing part and good friendship going awry
kher well not having any crushes is not so unlikely I guess :)
Good to know that..! Keep it up with your innovative imagination..
ReplyDelete@ distantcords
ReplyDeleteThank you for thinking otherwise!
@ Atul
Thanks a ton dude!
I still get crushes! On actors...
ReplyDeleteCrushes are one-way adorations, so if you're not into that, who cares?
i walked through this lane, alone, smiling at those couples who couldn stop giglin at each other's ears.. holding hands and those hugs and kisses - some one save this world, i cried.. they were insane, how could someone have a crush? its eitr comited or single, but a crush? i smiled. i took tht turn to the mall only to look into her eyes, the dark blue eyes. we din talk, but her eyes asked me to hold her hands, to steal her from her self! 3 seconds, she smiled. god, i am in love! :)
ReplyDelete@ Julia Smith
ReplyDeleteCute! Actually I may have not found someone whom I liked that ways... :)
@ Sawan
Is this a story or did it really happen to you?
its just a story :) i felt like writing this wen i read the post!
ReplyDeleteit's a hilarious post Niki!
ReplyDeletemy crushes have crushed me :*(
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@ Sawan
ReplyDeleteAha. Good to know that.
@ निशांत मिश्र - Nishant Mishra
Hello! I am glad you liked the post. Keep visiting! TC
If I am allowed to discount the odd Nauheed Cyrusi or Kate Winslet, I have also led a strangely sad "crushless" life :(
ReplyDeleteFinally, figured out that the link forwarded by you had a spelling error :)
ahh... the grey area of social accomplishments! the ambiguous tight lipped smile, a dash of smartness 'n a whole lotta confusion/ even strategy... what can one say :)
ReplyDelete@ arunabh
ReplyDeleteWelcome to the gang of the never crushed! Lolz. Sorry about the spelling error!
@ der Bergwind
:). Hahaha!
Many Many moons ago...I liked that..!
ReplyDeleteVia Neha!(d gypsy!)
@ Rushabhh Gandhi
ReplyDeleteHello! Nice of you to stop by! Keep visiting! TC
:D when you define something, you also limit it... the world could be your crush... why limit yourself?
ReplyDeleteglad i found this blog... its frigging brilliant.
Write Nikki..am waiting for your next post!!
ReplyDelete@ Little Girl Lost
ReplyDeleteThanks a ton!
@ Sujata
Yes! I have been wanting to write but running out of ideas...a little too much work!
I like this postt and the way u write...
ReplyDeleteCrushes !!
:) :)
मेरी कलम - मेरी अभिव्यक्ति
Crushess !!
ReplyDeleteLovely post...I like it and the way u write..
मेरी कलम - मेरी अभिव्यक्ति
@ अनिल कान्त
ReplyDeleteHello! thanks a lot! Keep Visiting!
Tc
ah all depends on how one defines a crush.. based on that you can have one every week or never !
ReplyDeletegood interesting write :)
will come back for more..
Cheers,
Sharad
Medley
@ Sharad Sharma
ReplyDeleteThanks! Keep Visitng. TC